a penny for ur thots

have u ever wondered why some ppl act the way they are? everybody have their own tantrums. i myself would be lying if i said i dont have any.
but over time, u learn something along the way. sometimes i question why some ppl never learn from any episodes though i actually understand the reason why.
are we too pampered?
what type are we?
are we the receiving type or the giving type?
why cant we balance it out?