what would u do?

does ur mother comes first?
in my case, i will definitely stop what i'm doing if she needs my help urgently. that's the question. how far would u go to please mum? not to please actually but more like running errands for her and maybe to send her somewhere and to pick her up later. would u give excuses juz to be off the hook and let somebody do it on ur behalf? although u're sooooo bz and too engrossed with ur work, what rights do u have to say no to her? how can u even utter the word no to ur own mother? some may think it's ok to say no once in a while in this modern age.
i dont think it's ok.
i'm a firm believer in asking for hubby's consent and mum's blessing in whatever i do. no matter how far u think u would go in ur career or marriage, there's no way u can go far if there's no blessing. u may not feel the pinch now but u will later.
u hafta set ur priorities right.
it's as simple as that.