total acceptance

forgiving is not the same as forgetting or condoning what has happened.
the fact remains that someone has done something wrong.
only forgivenesss can lessen its grip.
forgiving is to agree within oneself to overlook the wrong against u.
give up the resentment.
u r entitled to it whether u like or not.
the fact is, mistakes made cannot be undone.
yes, they caused sorrow and pain.
even if we were to hold grudges, it can never be undone.
non forgiveness keeps u in the struggle.
why carry that burden when u have a choice?
if it can break the cycle of hatred and resentment and pain, why not?
we've had enough of hatred going on around us rite now.

but its easier said than done, dont u think?

well at least i know it's doable.